Sunday, January 13, 2008

The (unfair) case against Hillary Clinton


I have been doing a lot of thinking this month about Hillary, and just why she is so publicly vilified, and at last I think I have figured it out.

She came out of the closet.

Hillary Clinton has been reviled as having been too ambitious and too involved in her husband's presidency by the same people who now say she wasn't involved enough to claim White House experience.

But first ladies who were active in their husband's presidencies are hardly new. Eleanor Roosevelt is an obvious example. Also roundly criticized at the time, although many now revere her as a woman before her time. She also, coincidentally, had to bear up with grace while her husband philandered. Many to this day do not know how FDR died - being fellated by his mistress in her apartment. His body was moved back to the White House, and the "polite fiction" was maintained by the press, and by his widow, that he died quietly in his own bed. Can you imagine Bill Clinton getting away with that one? But another time for my rant about the media.

Nancy Reagan, love her or hate her, ran her husband's presidency during much of his second term. He was debilitated by the onset of Alzheimer's disease even then. It's just not enough time has passed for this to be acknowledged - another polite fiction presently intact. We had a dementia victim with his hand on the button for those four years.

Edith Wilson, wife of Woodrow, ran the country for six months when he was recovering from a stroke. If you disagree on the Nancy Reagan example, Mrs. Wilson's story is well accepted and documented by prominent historians. The polite fiction was maintained that she was reading all papers to her husband, discussing them with him, and "acting on his instructions".

So what did Hillary do that was so different? I'll tell you. She didn't maintain the polite fiction. She stepped out from behind her husband. She rightly said, I am part of a team, but I am a person in my own right. I am doing the work, and I will acknowledge that publicly. This was her great sin. And good for her. During the Clinton presidency, women everywhere had long been accepted as equals by any fair-minded person. Women contribute equally (indeed sometimes more) than men do to our culture and our country. It is ridiculous that we expect the presidency to stand alone as an example of times-gone-by that never were. Because she stepped forward, she was perceived as pushy and assertive, not womanly. Well bullshit. I'm sorry. There have always been assertive goal-oriented women kicking the pants of men who needed it. And God Bless 'em. There is nothing un-womanly about demanding to be treated with equality and respect.

The next thing she is guilty of is for the failure of her health-care reform efforts. The subset on this one is, of course, that she chose a "real" issue to be her First Lady project, rather than something innocuous and "lady-like" (more sexist bullshit, see above). First, at the time she tried to do this, she was a Washington neophyte. This was really too big a job to take on as your first thing. The equivalent of a sixth grader choosing to make a working nuclear reactor as a science fair project. Secondly, few at that time had the vision to see or acknowledge the coming health care crisis. Because this wasn't perceived as something that needed to be done, it was very hard for her to enlist any help or cooperation. The equivalent of trying to warn Victorians about the damage of Radon gas in their homes. Third, I will say this. If you haven't failed at something, that means you haven't tried anything new or different. Thomas Alva Edison went through a thousand tries before he hit on a successful light bulb filament. I think one failure on an issue as complex as overhauling our entire health care system can be forgiven.

So there are the big reasons that Hillary is so reviled by so many. Doesn't seem very fair does it?

These are my reservations about her:

1) Her position as a polarizing figure (fair or not) is a drag on the ticket.
2) Unfortunately, I think there are many men in this country who will not vote for a woman for president.
- that's me playing pundit
3) She is the ultimate Washington insider candidate. That is a sword that cuts both ways. I have no doubt that she would be able to take the reins of the presidency from day one. And yes, she can probably deliver more actual results than a president who is trying to change the political system. But on the other hand, do we really need more of the same?

Things will never change if we keep electing the same kinds of people. At this point in the country, I would like to see the government focusing on more long term goals than just getting re-elected. I would be willing to forgo short-term progress to see some real changes happen. I would like to see the system change. I would like to see an America where you didn't have to be ridiculously wealthy or in the pocket of special interests to have enough money to run for president. I would like to see term limits for Congress - we are desperately in need of new blood and new ideas. I would like to see the term of Presidency go from four to six years, particularly with the election process now shaping into a 2 year run. As screwed as we would have been this last time had it worked that way, I think ultimately it would be a better system.

I can no longer bitch (for a while anyway)

"Waterford" or "Waffle" 13 3/4" sandwich platter, by Hocking (before they were Anchor Hocking) circa 1938-1944

about my glass luck being all used up. I found this "Waterford" pattern (the slang name is "Waffle") depression glass platter at the jockey lot this morning, and talked the woman down to $3. I now have a matching set of these. I wasn't going to buy this one unless I got a good price for it, because the other one I bought in Blue Ridge, GA one time when Michael and I were visiting his parents at their cabin, and I paid more than retail for it. Only $12.50, but I was still pissed, because I thought I had gotten a deal, and because I don't usually buy crystal pieces. This one has a small chip off the inner rim, but covered with scrumptious food, and as part of a stunning matched set flanking a non-existent buffet, I don't think anyone will ever notice. Also, all the "teeth" on the outer edge are perfect, surprisingly.

The first time I showed my other platter like this to Sweet Justin, he said "If I just saw that, I would think it came from Wal-Mart. Seriously." LOL

Saturday, January 12, 2008

Yay! Saturday!

OK, first. Before I get started. I got a flier for the Peace Center, and they were advertising a show called "The Drowsy Chaperone", with Georgia Engle. I couldn't believe my eyes. She looks EXACTLY the same as she did in Mary Tyler Moore 40 YEARS AGO. And the pic doesn't look airbrushed either. Either she has a standing with some good plastic surgeon, or this woman has sold her soul to Satan. Moving on.

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FAB jockey lot day. Bargains Galore! Got some new (really new) jeans for $9 a pair. JC Penny brand, but carpenter jeans, my fave. After the holidays, I am in need of new jeans, at least temporarily (I tell myself). Also found a pair of Georgia steel-toe logger boots for $3. They were a bit grotty, but really all they needed was a good cleaning up. The toes are a bit scuffed, they have been used to work in, but for a $100 pair of boots, I will give them a polish.

So I got home, ate some brekkie, and watched two episodes of How Clean is Your House? I just love that show, and it was two I hadn't seen today. Then I worked on my new boots, getting them cleaned up. Then I thought it really wasn't fair to clean them all up when I had two other pairs here that really needed some love. So I cleaned them up too. I also put to the test an old biker trick that my mother's ex-husband told me about. He said bikers use nothing on their leathers but Vaseline. He swore that mink oil and that stuff rots the stitching, but thin layer of petroleum jelly conditions and preserves the leather AND stitching, while making it waterproof as well. I have to tell you, it works a charm. Those grotty looking boots I bought yesterday look great, and my own boots look great too. And not the least bit greasy or sticky. It works on shiny boots or oiled leather. The key is to make sure the leather is clean and dry, and then apply a VERY thin coat. You just touch you rag to the jelly and then rub it in. You only need three or four touches to do a boot. And I have big feet.

After that, it was nap time. I had intended to do some cleaning, but as usual, not much got done. And Justin is coming tomorrow, so I have to at least dust. I did haul off the recycling, do a bit of wash, and take out the trash. But there is so much more that needs to be done.

But I wasn't about to spend Saturday night cleaning. I hadn't seen Miss Kat and dana since Christmas, so I went to hang out with them last night. I had been talking to a guy on Bear411 about politics, so that was on my mind. We had a really good conversation about politics, but I'm still not sure who I'm going to vote for in the primary. I was solid Obama until about a week ago, but now I have doubts. Both Obama and Clinton have their good and bad points, so now I'm torn. Unfortunately, I'm still not decided, but talking with other people is helping me work things out.

Friday, January 11, 2008

A Lovely Mood

When I got off work on Friday I was in way too good a mood to stay at home by myself. I ate supper, then called Russ about going over there. Went and hung out with him. We watched Epic Movie, which was pretty much as vile as the critics said it was, but sometimes I just need something stupid. It was nice just to hang out with Russ. Billy got home later too.

Thursday, January 10, 2008

Happy Ending for a Thursday*

Average day, but an Aviance night

Now that George is seen to, I can relax and enjoy the weekend. Don't know what I'll do yet. Mom has hinted about us going up to Wilkesboro this weekend to see my grandparents, but it never really firmed up.

I still want to play Bunny Bump, but thankfully, not as badly as earlier in the week. Only played a couple of games of Tetris.

Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Quorn Turk'y Roast!


I found a new author last month, Jasper Fforde. I started one of the Thursday Next novels today, The Eyre Affair. The books are supposed to be a cross between V.I. Warshawski and the Douglas Adams books, which appealed to me, although I was a bit concerned that the grounding in English Lit might be a bit too learned for me. As it is, I had no trouble getting into the book at all. Thursday Next is a delightfully competent and smart woman with a troubled past. I like strong female protagonists, and of course at this stage in my life a troubled past romantic life is something with which I can really identify. I also love her dotty uncle the inventor, who reminds me a bit of an absent-minded Q (from James Bond). I always love finding a new author. I'm still going to read the rest of Charlaine Harris, but I bought her next one, so I have to read the library books first. She also is doing that "hopping" thing that Mary JaniceDavidson does where they put short stories that continue the narrative of their novels in collections of short stories, so you have to find and read those before you can read the next novel in the series. Since I hate reading that stuff out of order, it's a bit of a pain in the ass.

Stopped off at Whole Foods last night on my way home, and they had Quorn Turk'y Roasts back in! Hooray! I promptly bought two. I'll have turk'y and swiss sarnies for lunch next week. Mmmm. Also bought a bit of goat's milk Gouda, the best cheese EVER! So much for the un-cheez. Ironically, I don't like regular gouda, it's too smooth and soft, and just turns to a gelatinous yuck for mouth feel to me. But I could eat a truckload of goat's milk Gouda. With a texture similar to cheddar, but a distinctly mellow yet gamey flavor, it is the best ever. Michael's step-dad Bill introduced us to it, and after I gobbled down most of the pound, I asked them what it was. It was just "Bill Cheese" for a long time after that. It's expensive, but hey, I have to have a treat every now and then (said Gigantor). It's been a month since I bought my Mimolette, which I also love. And at $14.99/lb. (to Mimolette's $19.95/lb.) this was a relative bargain. Of course I just bought about 4 oz.

After that, I virtuously went home and ate leftovers. Had a bit of avocado for the good fat and b-complex vitamins, and some brown rice cakes with flax seed in them, so had a huge Omega-3 rush last night. Trying to detox from all the holiday crap I ate. Of course I had Snow Cream for dessert, since I still have about a gallon of ice cream in my fridge, in total. Sigh.

Still preoccupied with "Bunny Bump" thoughts. Played 87 games of Tetris last night.

Tuesday, January 8, 2008

Such a Good Boy!

I had gotten some BJ's coupons in the mail, so I went in tonight after work to see how good the deals were. Meh, not so great. You have to watch them, some stuff is just as cheap retail, without buying a 55 gallon drum. So, I looked around a bit, saw what they had on sale from the holidays, etc. I spent only $4, getting a new calendar for my desk at work. I use a desktop pad to keep track of my social engagements. So much easier to be able to see a whole month at a glance.

I can't believe I spent only $4 at BJ's, despite the temptations. But the fridge is full, and I am mostly stocked up on BJ's stuff right now.

I also finally finished the book Atonement by Ian Mcewan, which I have been reading on for about a month, since I didn't do any reading over the holiday, as I had expected. It reminded me of The Night Watch by Sarah Waters. Both fairly grim, both set during WWII in the UK. Atonement did have a more satisfactory ending than The Night Watch, but you worked for it. The movie for A has won all kinds of awards already, but now I'm not sure if I want to see it. You have to get through an awful lot of grim to get to a really pretty small payoff. I like to see my characters happy, or at least I like to see them happy for a while after they overcome whatever. Or if they must be unhappy, I prefer they be unhappy in an amusing way. I live enough life in quiet desperation, measuring out my days with coffee spoons. That is not entertainment to me. I suppose that makes me shallow, but that's the way I am.

In other news, the "Bunny Bump" Wii music (instrumental version of the disco song "Good Times" by Chic) has been stuck in my head for two days. I don't know if they have crack in the controllers or what, but I seriously had to stop myself from calling Billy to beg going over to play that game today. After all, it's his present, and I don't want him to think I'm only going over there to play Wii. I have never thought this much about a video game before. I downloaded a free version of Tetris to act as my methodone.